Do NOT assume that you know everything about me just because you read my weblog on a regular basis. Any judgements you make will be based on the information I have provided you about myself, which maybe vague, incomplete or shallow. Whatever opinion you form on me as person, or my life as a whole, is probably best kept to yourself. Remember, you are the reader. An obvious exception to this would be if someone were asking for my advice or opinions.

Compliments will always be graciously accepted and appreciated. Criticisms and reproaches are fine if you have a problem with something, but try to remain constructive and not be an asshole. No one is forcing you to give out your opinions, so if you don't have anything remotely positive to say, it may be best to keep quiet.


if you have a real life relationship with me, remember that communication is very important. View this as online journal, First of all let me know that you read my site, especially if I did not tell you personally.


Ex-friends, lovers and estranged family members who have been cut out of the my life should refrain from reading my blog. If the relationship has ended, there is no reason you should get daily updates on the my life. If you simply can't help yourself, do it quietly, and never repeat what you read or use it to hurt me.

It is important that as a friend, relative, co-worker or whatever you may be to me, that your presence at my weblog not impede my ability to express myself. Remember this is my outlet. I may not want you to read certain things I might write about you or others you care about, in order to spare your feelings, avoid drama or maintain my privacy. You should respect this and immediately stop going to the site, and never relay any information you gather at my site to others who might use it against me.


If I writes about you and you don't appreciate it, approach me about it. Try to remain calm and polite. Explain that you are entitled to your privacy as well. There are many compromises that can be reached from using vague nicknames to protect your anonymity, or not mentioning you at all. If you are upset because I am writing negative things about you, be reasonable, try to see if there is a way to resolve the issues and mend your relationship with me. If that doesn't seem to be possible, stop going to the website. I will eventually get bored and move on

Lastly,I have the right to stop writing at any time for any reason I see fit, and at no point I need to justify or explain these reasons to you or any of my readers. It's my weblog, they can do with it as they please.

if you cannot take it, Fuck off